In everyday hustle and bustle, people think too much about the needs of society: what to say to superiors, how to please a soul mate, how to learn a lesson with a child, how to console a friend, etc. However, all these things are aimed at prolonging existence, and not at revealing the fullness of life.
It is very important to stop in time and understand that there is only one life and it flows out a bit every second, so your well-being and worldview should be key. Do things every day that will bring you happiness and pleasure. And some of them start following today.
10. Love what you already have
Man by nature loves to get stuck either in the past or in the future, completely ignoring the moment “now”. He or “relishes” the memories of the past, lamenting that the happy moment will never happen again. Or he peers anxiously into the future and sets himself goals and plans that supposedly should someday make him happy. But what about today? God has given you a healthy body that is able to earn its own food and enjoy. You are also endowed with a mind that can create amazing, and sometimes unique thoughts, ideas. You have the opportunity to daily contemplate your favorite environment: family, friends, half. Isn't this the most important “bones” for a happy life? The ability to love and see beauty is inherent in a person at birth, and only he chooses whether to use these gifts today, or to postpone it for later.
9. Communicate only with those who are dear to you
Life is fleeting, society is motley, so spending time on every single individual is simply pointless. Here in the store you stood and talked with the saleswoman, and she “rewarded” you with a psychoenergetic injury - you were forced to buy the recommended sausage under pressure, although you didn’t plan to. As a result, she will be across her throat while eating, and oppression from wasted finances will haunt all day. So this is one saleswoman! And if you “endure” annoying friends and their dull company every day, or even a spouse who has long since become a stranger. It is interesting, but close people can also be such “vampires” around us, with whom we force ourselves to communicate because of the fact that “family”. Remember that blood ties are not a reason to endure unpleasant energy and let yourself be suppressed. God gave you life, and only he participated in the fact that you were born. Do not hold on to excuses and boldly move away from people who bring you trouble.
8. Rejoice over others
Absorbing the energy of parents, often negative, kids learn not the most right things in life. For example, that rich people must have reached the heights dishonestly (dad gave it, married successfully, ended up in the right place, sat up with his bosses, etc.). Envy is formed in a person year after year, which deprives us of the opportunity to objectively look at the situation and be happy for another person.
Yes, to force yourself to overcome pride and jealousy is painstaking work. But just getting rid of the "husk" you can discern a truly worthy person in your environment.
And remember, the more goodness and success you wish others, the cleaner and more comfortable your soul becomes. And this means that in the near future joyful events will necessarily stick to you.
7. Learn to forgive
First of all, it is for you. A man can do disgust and go his own way. And you feel the negative emotions, the desire for revenge, self-pity and anger! And it is you who burn all these feelings from within, preventing you from viewing such an interesting world around you.
Try not so much to forgive people as initially not to fix guilty feelings for them. Buddha once told that until you accept the negative of a stranger, he remains with him.
And remember that forgiveness is the highest form of manifestation of Love. It cleanses the soul and leaves a feeling of peace.
6. Meet new people
The main advice concerns the opportunity to meet the interlocutor in reality. Communicate in transport, in the playground, in the park, in the resort. If you feel that the energy of good and positive is emanating from a person, then it will not be superfluous to join these wonderful sensations and share them with him.
Break away from your monitors, social networks and dating sites. Live emotional communication with verbal and non-verbal techniques will help you get to know other people better, gain primary psychology skills and even know yourself.
5. Strive to achieve your goals
And this is not only about the fact that these goals need to be reached and set. The question is different - how not to put them in a long box and bring implementation closer? The answer is very simple - start acting immediately. To achieve any life plan, there are always (emphasize - ALWAYS) the first steps. It may seem ridiculous and ridiculous at first glance, but still this is an action, and not just a motive created by the head. The Universe, seeing your efforts and efforts, will surely direct a stream of energy that will pick you up and carry you in the right direction.
Tip - start with the most usual list, where indicate possible ways and steps, obstacles and help on the way to achieving the goal. Even the elaboration of such small details is already an act, already a step on the path to the desired.
4. Be positive
This is said at every training session, and a person forcibly "puts on" a smile, is invigorated, brave and pretends that everything is fine. Actually, the idea is not in this, but in correctly assessing your advantages and positive features, your capabilities and starting to act in this world more productively. That is, stop "killing time", and use it rationally. Stop "exist", "burn life", and begin to live it.
Oriental practices (for example, meditation, yoga) or psychoanalysis, which will allow you to cleanse both thoughts and the soul from false negative attitudes, really help on the path to knowing yourself and your capabilities.
3. Solve problems without running away from them
As one proverb says, if you feel fear about something, then this thing is the first thing you need to do. Fear is anxiety, the strongest emotion that rules over you and controls your life. It is always easier to do and regret than to reproach yourself for cowardice all your life. Consider all the possible consequences of your action, reconcile yourself to them in advance, develop a reaction, and boldly dive into solving problems.
2. Realize your ideas and dreams.
As in the paragraph on goals, all ideas and dreams, as if they seemed unreal, should begin to be embodied at this very moment. Higher forces are always watching us and help to give birth to plans for the realization of cherished desires. The most important thing on the way to their fulfillment is to create the Intention and follow it. And this means not seeing risk situations in front of you, discarding rational thoughts-traitors, arguments-doubts and fears. Live once - act, because it is in your power!
1. Strive to help
Whatever your life situation, always help the environment: flora, fauna, people. Remember, since the Universe on your way has created such a situation that you can help, it means participation is required of you and it really is in your power. Perhaps by your behavior you will show a lesson to another person, so your good deed is extremely necessary, and, perhaps, vital for him and for you.
Self-development and the formation of one’s personality always brings a person closer to happiness. Is always! That is why do not be shy and do not be afraid to invest in yourself a little more time, effort, attention and even finances.