The science of captivating indifference is like the art of walking a rope without insurance. This knowledge is transmitted along the female line from generation to generation together with family heirlooms and eagerly absorbed in the circle of closest friends.
At the Women's Council, decisions are jointly made on how to foster the interest of “that same” so that everything looks natural and relaxed. If only men knew how to perfect their skill to break their hearts! We recall only 10 of them:
10. Respect
Teach a man to appreciate you and your time — arrange a meeting on the weekend no later than Thursday. Do not allow late calls and messages — an acceptable time for communication from 10 to 22 hours.
9. Phone communication
According to etiquette, the right to end a conversation belongs to the person who started it. Allow yourself this negligence-stop the conversation first, let you be considered better educated than boring.
8. Mystery
The owner herself may not be fully aware of her riddles, but feel, without fail. Therefore, it is so important during the day to remain alone with oneself in order to hear oneself better, to understand, and most importantly - to feel.
7. Independence
Slavery was abolished in the 19th century, and it will sometimes be reminiscent of her husband to be useful, not to mention the applicants. The priority should be a woman herself. Though small, but own earnings will save you from thoughts of financial dependence, and understanding of your desires, needs and goals from emotional dependence.
6. Jealousy
Let him get used to the attention of the opposite sex directed at you from the very beginning. Always keep the hype around your person at a certain level in order to avoid two extremes - Othello who suddenly wakes up in him and who sleeps Romeo forever.
5. Self Confidence
A calm and unshakable conviction of its value and uniqueness. Watch your posture! Straighten your back right now and raise your chin - that's it, confidence markers are already read from you a mile away. The rest is the power of persuasion.
4. Instinct of the hunter
A man seeks to reduce the distance with women who are of interest to him. There should always be some distance between you that he will cover. Slither and get closer, closer and further - with this game you can amuse yourself and him forever.
3. Your girlfriends and friends
With age, people admit that having friends becomes almost a fundamental factor for happiness. Friendship is more selective than love, less prone to illusions and emotions. Women, due to their tendency to reflection, can give a negative answer to the question if they would be friends with themselves, while their friends cherish every minute spent together. Take care of your friends, because they are you.
2. Proximity
Only you decide when it will happen. And the longer you make the decision, the better. Yes, gender equality does not exclude women's initiative to be the first to propose having sex, but let emancipation be manifested differently.
1. Breakup
At any time, be prepared to cross out from your life any, even your most beloved man, if any of you have ceased to satisfy communication. If yours will be back. And if not, a place for new love will appear in the heart.
And finally, we recall how subtly Marina Tsvetaeva noticed the eternal female ability to be inaccessible and attractive at the same time: “To be like a stalk and to be like steel in a world where we can do so little ...”.